Expensive lesson in vehicle maintenance – check the gas cap

Last night the check engine light on my 2001 Acura Integra came on. I googled a couple of things here and there and I found some people suggested using a paperclip to read the code.

My car is relatively old so I didn’t want to bother with a DIY project.

I dropped it off at the shop this morning without thinking much about it. I figure reading the code off the car would probably cost about an oil change — $30-$40, and whatever is wrong with it, they will recommend a service to me and I can decide then how much I want spend. I was so out of it, I didn’t even realize they quoted me a very hefty price tag.

The results came back — It was because the damn gas cap was not tighten, so the sensor threw a fit. My post-mortem research showed that this is actually a very common reason the light came on.

Now here is the kicker, the bill is $90!

FUDGE!

I shouldn’t have been so nonchalant about it. I go through a lot of work to save a couple of bucks here and there, but I totally failed to do my research here. Had I googled just a bit harder, I would have probably fixed the problem.

The worst part is, this exact thing actually happened to my Prius less than 2 months ago. But the Prius has free maintenance so I didn’t feel the pain of being dumb.

Now I know.

Medicare is confusing

I’ve been trying to help my mom with her medicare and this shit is damn confusing.
You’d think since it’s made for seniors, they’d make it as simple as possible. But it’s not.
The worst part is, most people who are supposed to be knowledgeable to help seniors with this stuff cannot answers the questions I have.
Or they simply cannot answer it clearly because it is impossible to be clear about it.
From my current limited understanding, they have four different types of Medicare A, B, C, and D.
It’s nice that they gave it a simple alphabetic naming convention, but in this case it’s actually NOT helpful since it is completely non-descriptive and confusing.

NSA TSA and NRA

First off, I find it ridiculous some people are just NOW complaining about the government spying on them.

This shit is so old news, Jesus was alive when it happened. PBS has been running documentaries on it for years now and everyone knows there is an entire ATT building in San Francisco dedicated to spying on your phone calls.

I feel like one of those people who knew about the indie band before they became popular and now thinks everyone is a poser for listening to their music.

But anyways, my main thought is this:

Gun people really irritates me. As I said before, I don’t care about them and their guns. They can sleep with a gun up their ass if they want. But their rhetoric about using guns to protect themselves against the “tyranny of government” is so fucking stupid I can’t help but label them as stupid.

I guarantee you a government drone will kill you and your entire stupid militia in less than 5 seconds.

The reason it irritates me so much is because the spirit of the 2nd amendment is actually more applicable to defending our electronic freedom.

Maybe back in the days when the US started, guns were important to defending your rights. But nowadays, the freedom to communicate online free of government spying is the true weapon of liberty. Just look at how all the revolutions in the middle east started. It all came from people using the internet to organize and spread their message.

It pisses me off that the Republican party, the architect of government spying, through things like the Patriot Act, are the same asshole screaming about gun rights.

Now they are all pretending to be mad about PRISM just because Obama is president.

I bet you the next controversy is going to be when people realize that the TSA has actually been storing all those nudie pictures of them in a giant warehouse.

Relationship Math

As I’ve grown older and witness more people start new romantic relationships, I’ve come notice that there are two different types of romantic relationships: Addition and Subtraction.

In an Addition Relationship, the new romantic interest becomes a new member of the family or group of friends. They regularly show up at family gatherings, they make time to hang out with their new friends, and your email mailing list gains one more address.

In a Subtraction Relationship, the new person is rarely seen. Not because they are not invited or because they live far away, but because for whatever reason, they do not make the effort to engage with their new friends or family. Sooner or later, you actually don’t even want to see them, because if you see them, it means something terribly bad has happened. A death, or tragic accident perhaps. But what’s worse is that, because this new person never comes around, it means that the friend or family member who is with this person, will also disappear with them. Hence the subtraction.

Experience has taught me that for friends and family, Subtraction Relationships are a very unhappy and bitter arrangements. It’s a double whammy really. First you lose a friend, and second, you feel that the person you love is now stuck with someone who is not right for them — because if they were the right person, why would they rip them from their friends and family?

The only thing you can really do is hope that they are happy where they are. Maybe they found better friends or family elsewhere. The alternative is that they are isolated from the outside because of their new partner — which is not a happy thought.

But all in all, I do not have enough evidence to conclude which type of romantic relationship is better for the people actually involved in the relationship — Maybe in a couple of years, tracking divorce rates, I can answer this question.

Amazon Web Services is awesome

The other day while playing around with my AWS RDS account, I realized that I left an RDS-large instance running for about 6 months. It had nothing in it, but it was turned on. It was costing me about $500 a month, but I had no idea because I pay my amazon account automatically, and I rarely ever log in to check in on the bill.

This is of course a huge mistake on my part, and my heart sunk when I realized what a mess I made.

I did the only thing I could think of and emailed Amazon asking them to spare me. I made a huge mistake and needed their mercy.

To my surprise, they credited me the entire balance without hassle, within 2 days.

Awesome. Amazon is awesome.

And yes I learned my lesson. I now check my billing account regularly and set alarms to notify when I exceed my threshold.

President Reagan and the Environment

Saw an interesting documentary today on American Experiences about the environmental movement in America.

One thing I learned from it was how Reagan basically ruined the forward momentum we were making  with environmental issues in America.

http://www.thedailygreen.com/print-this/presidents-worst-environmental-records-460808?page=all

http://www.nytimes.com/1989/01/02/us/reagan-and-environment-to-many-a-stalemate.html?pagewanted=all&src=pm

 

Because of his legacy, lawmakers can’t even talk about environmentalism in this country without being called names, chastised for being anti-business, or ridiculed as being impractical.

If we had someone in the white house who embraced the progress Carter was making, and encouraged people to educate themselves, who knows what kind of world we could live in today.

Starbucks: the good life

Every time go to Starbucks, I get this uncomfortable feeling that these are the best days of my life.

It’s not because I have some unhealthy love for Starbucks, but because in the back of my mind I feel like the fact that I can go to Starbucks and order over-priced coffee and treats any time I want, life must be pretty good.

I know this because I grew up poor. In my childhood, I couldn’t afford a 39 cents hamburger from McDonalds, let alone $1.50 coffee.

And of course, compared to 99% of humanity who struggle every day to make ends meet, battling health issues, or stuck in other bad situations, my life is REALLY good.

I feel uncomfortable about it because it seems like everything good in life must come to an end. Things will change, and life CAN always get tougher. I am not saying it will, but I some times I feel like I am at the pinnacle of human life right now, and when you are at the top, it is easiest to go down.

I would love to end this post by saying that I am making the most of my situation and doing everything I can to help my fellow human beings, but the truth is, I am not. It’s something that I struggle with daily, and I only hope that — maybe — I could.